i modified the kwinaquamod decorations to be more like the original aqua -
no more blue inactive titlebars... they're grey now, and i added a help button to the right (can be changed to menubutton easily by editing Acqua.cpp )
( you can see the help button on the kcontrol window on the screenshot )
also, the left buttons now have the correct distances, and the titlebar font is centered better...
i don't know how to make the inactive-titlebar transparent, if someone does, please inform me :)
thanks to the apple designers and the creators of the original theme!!!